How The Pandemic Has Affected Interest In Threesomes And Sex Parties

September 29, 2021 by Justin Lehmiller

The COVID-19 pandemic has affected our sexual interests and behaviors in many ways, which I’ve covered extensively on the blog (see here for a recap). But something that hasn’t really been explored yet is how interest in threesomes and group sex have changed. How do people feel about multi-partner activities in a time of social distancing? During...

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How The Pandemic Has Affected Interest In Threesomes And Sex Parties
What To Do When You And Your Partner Want Different Amounts Of Sex
What To Do When You And Your Partner Want Different Amounts Of Sex

September 20, 2021 by Justin Lehmiller

In long-term relationships, partners’ sex drives are bound to get out of sync from time to time. That’s normal and not a cause for concern unless it becomes a persistent...

Dating & Relationships, Sex Tips
4 Ways Men Say Couple’s Vibrators Improved Their Sex Lives
4 Ways Men Say Couple’s Vibrators Improved Their Sex Lives

August 23, 2021 by Justin Lehmiller

When vibrators are mentioned in pop culture, they’re usually discussed as masturbation aides—something people (particularly women) use to pleasure themselves. You don’t typically see people whipping them out during couple’s...

Dating & Relationships, Sex Tips
Why Establishing Sexual Compatibility Isn’t A One-Time Thing
Why Establishing Sexual Compatibility Isn’t A One-Time Thing

April 28, 2021 by Justin Lehmiller

One reason that many couples have sex early on in a relationship—and well before the prospect of marriage might ever come to mind—is because they want to know whether they’re...

Sex Tips
6 Tips For Dealing With Sexual Difficulties
6 Tips For Dealing With Sexual Difficulties

January 27, 2021 by Justin Lehmiller

As a sex educator, I receive questions almost every day from people who are facing some type of difficulty in their sex life and don’t know what to do about...

Sex Tips
Want More Pleasure in Your Sex Life? There’s an Online Course for That
Want More Pleasure in Your Sex Life? There’s an Online Course for That

June 29, 2020 by Justin Lehmiller

One topic that is conspicuously absent in most sexuality education courses is pleasure [1]. Most of us only ever learn about the potential risks associated with sex and how to...

Sex Tips
How Sex Toys Can Help Men Improve Their Sexual Performance
How Sex Toys Can Help Men Improve Their Sexual Performance

June 26, 2020 by Justin Lehmiller

Sex toys have never been more popular than they are right now. Sales have been steadily increasing for years, but they really surged during lockdown and quarantine.Despite their growing popularity,...

Sex Tips
I’m a Cisgender Woman and My Husband Watches Trans Porn: Does That Mean He’s Not Into Me?
I’m a Cisgender Woman and My Husband Watches Trans Porn: Does That Mean He’s Not Into Me?

April 24, 2020 by Justin Lehmiller

A reader submitted the following question:“I recently discovered that my husband is attracted to transsexuals (MTF - non op). This is the only type of porn that he looks at....

Sex Q&A, Sex Tips
5 Secrets to Increase Your Sexual Satisfaction: Tips From a Sex Therapist
5 Secrets to Increase Your Sexual Satisfaction: Tips From a Sex Therapist

April 13, 2020 by Justin Lehmiller

As a practicing sex therapist, I often see two partners legitimately trying to bridge a satisfaction gap between each other, but they can’t seem to get the moves just right....

Sex Tips
Doing Your Kegel Exercises Just Got A Lot More Fun
Doing Your Kegel Exercises Just Got A Lot More Fun

January 24, 2020 by Justin Lehmiller

Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises is a well-established way of giving your sex life a boost. Indeed, study after study has found that these exercises offer a...

Sex Tips
One Person’s Sexual Problem is Another Person’s Erotic Desire
One Person’s Sexual Problem is Another Person’s Erotic Desire

October 23, 2019 by Justin Lehmiller

What counts as a sexual “problem?” It depends who you ask. For example, consider the phenomenon often referred to as “premature ejaculation” among men. What I’m talking about here are...

Sex Tips
How the Sexual Effects of Alcohol, Marijuana, and Molly Compare
How the Sexual Effects of Alcohol, Marijuana, and Molly Compare

October 21, 2019 by Justin Lehmiller

Alcohol, marijuana, and ecstasy/MDMA/Molly are among the most popular substances people use to enhance their sexual experiences. But when it comes to their effects, how similar or different are these...

Sex Ed, Sex Tips
Why Sex Should Be About Having Fun Instead of Achieving Goals
Why Sex Should Be About Having Fun Instead of Achieving Goals

August 26, 2019 by Justin Lehmiller

A lot of people approach sex in a goal-oriented fashion, thinking that there are certain things they need to do or “achieve” every time. High on this list is the...

Sex Tips
Penis Enlargement Surgery Is Risky–And There’s Little Evidence That It Works
Penis Enlargement Surgery Is Risky–And There’s Little Evidence That It Works

May 22, 2019 by Justin Lehmiller

Penis size is a common body concern among men. While most guys report being satisfied with the size of their genitals, a sizable minority say they’re unhappy. For example, in...

Myth vs Fact, Sex Tips
Exercise Can Help Prevent and Treat Erectile Dysfunction
Exercise Can Help Prevent and Treat Erectile Dysfunction

February 8, 2019 by Justin Lehmiller

Erectile dysfunction or ED is one of the most common sexual difficulties experienced by men. As with most sexual difficulties, there are numerous potential causes, including some that are biological,...

Sex Tips
Orgasms Trigger Migraine Headaches in Some, But Cure Them in Others
Orgasms Trigger Migraine Headaches in Some, But Cure Them in Others

September 19, 2018 by Justin Lehmiller

We’ve long known that there’s a link between sex and headaches. In fact, we can trace this all the way back to Hippocrates, who is thought to be the first...

Sex Ed, Sex Tips

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