Erogenous Zones: What They Are and How to Find Them

April 21, 2025 by Merissa Prine

In discussions about how to increase sexual pleasure and satisfaction, it’s like that you’ve heard the term erogenous zones come up before, perhaps followed by phrases like “pleasure mapping” and/or “sensory exploration.” But what does all of this actually mean? And where are our erogenous zones anyway? Erogenous Zones and Pleasure Mapping: What Are They?...

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Erogenous Zones: What They Are and How to Find Them
Level Up Your Sex Life With Shan Boodram’s The Art of Sex Appeal
Level Up Your Sex Life With Shan Boodram’s The Art of Sex Appeal

April 2, 2025 by Merissa Prine

Most of us strive for a passionate, fulfilling, and pleasurable sex life. However, getting (and maintaining) the kind of sex life that you want can be a challenge. Many struggle...

Sex Ed, Sex Tips
How Sex Toys Are Revolutionizing Our Sex Lives
How Sex Toys Are Revolutionizing Our Sex Lives

January 30, 2025 by Merissa Prine

In recent years, the use of sex toys in America has gone from a highly taboo topic to one that is increasingly mainstream. More and more people are discovering how...

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Women’s Preferred Techniques for Pleasurable Anal Touch
Women’s Preferred Techniques for Pleasurable Anal Touch

November 7, 2024 by Merissa Prine

There is a substantial amount of research out there on anal sex, particularly penile-anal sex; however, most of this research focuses only on topics such as how many people are...

Sex Tips
3 Reasons To Use a Penis Pump
3 Reasons To Use a Penis Pump

September 12, 2024 by Justin Lehmiller

**This post is sponsored by Xersizer. Penis pumps are valuable tools that can help men to improve their sexual well-being. In fact, research has shown that these devices have the...

Sex Ed, Sex Tips
Navigating Sex With Paraplegia – Answering Listener Questions
Navigating Sex With Paraplegia – Answering Listener Questions

June 27, 2024 by Emily Mendelson

Today, we’re going to dive in and answer a question that a listener sent in about sex and paraplegia. They asked:  My husband is a paraplegic. He has no feeling...

Sex Q&A, Sex Tips
How To Deal With Erectile Dysfunction
How To Deal With Erectile Dysfunction

April 24, 2024 by Justin Lehmiller

**This post is sponsored by MailMyMeds  Erectile Dysfunction (ED) affects millions of men across the globe, yet discussions surrounding it often remain in the shadows due to stigma and feelings...

Sex Ed, Sex Tips
The Key to Keeping The Sexual Spark Alive: The Importance of Self-Expansion
The Key to Keeping The Sexual Spark Alive: The Importance of Self-Expansion

February 28, 2024 by Merissa Prine

Maintaining a vibrant and fulfilling sexual relationship requires effort, communication, and a deep understanding of each other’s needs and desires. Over time, couples often report declines in their level of...

Dating & Relationships, Psychology, Sex Tips
Why Halloween Is The Perfect Opportunity To Explore Roleplay Fantasies
Why Halloween Is The Perfect Opportunity To Explore Roleplay Fantasies

October 31, 2023 by Bethany Lumsdaine

Each October, seasonal Halloween costume shops pop up everywhere peddling “sexy” costumes representing various professions, beloved TV and film characters, and spooky creatures. It’s a massive enterprise, with Americans expected...

Fantasies, Sex Tips
Speaking Your Partner’s “Love Language” Might Give Your Sex Life a Boost
Speaking Your Partner’s “Love Language” Might Give Your Sex Life a Boost

February 15, 2023 by Emily Mendelson

The five “love languages”—words of affirmation, acts of service, gift giving, quality time, and physical touch—are meant to help individuals identify how they prefer to both give and receive love....

Dating & Relationships, Sex Tips
Happy New Year! Science-Backed Resolutions for Better Sex
Happy New Year! Science-Backed Resolutions for Better Sex

January 2, 2023 by Justin Lehmiller

The start of each new year is a common time for people to make resolutions for self-improvement. And it may very well be that more people than usual are making...

Sex Tips
Gen Z is Missing Out on the Benefits of Sex
Gen Z is Missing Out on the Benefits of Sex

September 21, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller

Generally speaking, sexual activity is good for our mental health. Sex (however you like to do it) has the potential to enhance our psychological well-being, as well as the connection...

Dating & Relationships, Media & Culture, Sex Tips
How Advances in Sex Toy Technology Can Enhance Men’s Sexual Performance
How Advances in Sex Toy Technology Can Enhance Men’s Sexual Performance

May 23, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller

**Note: This post is sponsored by The Handy More than 4 in 10 men report having experienced at least one sexual difficulty in the past year. Experiencing difficulties during sex...

Potpourri, Sex Tips
Sexual Compatibility Takes Work To Maintain
Sexual Compatibility Takes Work To Maintain

April 11, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller

One reason some partners have sex early on in a relationship is because they want to know whether they’re sexually compatible. Sex is an important part of most (but not...

Sex Tips
Why We Struggle With Sexual Initiation, and How to Fix It
Why We Struggle With Sexual Initiation, and How to Fix It

January 24, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller

Sexual initiation is something that seems challenging to navigate for many people. Over the years, I’ve heard from a lot of readers who want tips on initiation, with some saying...

Fantasies, Sex Tips
Genital Fit: The Conversation We Should Be Having About Genital Size
Genital Fit: The Conversation We Should Be Having About Genital Size

January 17, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller

There’s an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm in which an argument takes place over whether a woman has a “big vagina” or her ex-partner has a “small penis.” While this...

Sex Ed, Sex Tips

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