How Advances in Sex Toy Technology Can Enhance Men’s Sexual Performance

May 23, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller

**Note: This post is sponsored by The Handy More than 4 in 10 men report having experienced at least one sexual difficulty in the past year. Experiencing difficulties during sex can be very distressing, and they can sometimes even lead men to avoid sex entirely due to feelings of shame and embarrassment. Fortunately, most difficulties...

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How Advances in Sex Toy Technology Can Enhance Men’s Sexual Performance
Sexual Compatibility Takes Work To Maintain
Sexual Compatibility Takes Work To Maintain

April 11, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller

One reason some partners have sex early on in a relationship is because they want to know whether they’re sexually compatible. Sex is an important part of most (but not...

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Why We Struggle With Sexual Initiation, and How to Fix It
Why We Struggle With Sexual Initiation, and How to Fix It

January 24, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller

Sexual initiation is something that seems challenging to navigate for many people. Over the years, I’ve heard from a lot of readers who want tips on initiation, with some saying...

Fantasies, Sex Tips
Genital Fit: The Conversation We Should Be Having About Genital Size
Genital Fit: The Conversation We Should Be Having About Genital Size

January 17, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller

There’s an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm in which an argument takes place over whether a woman has a “big vagina” or her ex-partner has a “small penis.” While this...

Sex Ed, Sex Tips
Happy New Year! Science-Backed Resolutions For Better Sex In 2022
Happy New Year! Science-Backed Resolutions For Better Sex In 2022

January 3, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller

Each time a new year rolls around, a lot of us start making resolutions for self-improvement. I suspect more people than usual might be making New Year’s resolutions right now...

Sex Tips
How The Pandemic Has Affected Interest In Threesomes And Sex Parties
How The Pandemic Has Affected Interest In Threesomes And Sex Parties

September 29, 2021 by Justin Lehmiller

The COVID-19 pandemic has affected our sexual interests and behaviors in many ways, which I’ve covered extensively on the blog (see here for a recap). But something that hasn’t really been explored...

Potpourri, Sex Tips
What To Do When You And Your Partner Want Different Amounts Of Sex
What To Do When You And Your Partner Want Different Amounts Of Sex

September 20, 2021 by Justin Lehmiller

In long-term relationships, partners’ sex drives are bound to get out of sync from time to time. That’s normal and not a cause for concern unless it becomes a persistent...

Dating & Relationships, Sex Tips
4 Ways Men Say Couple’s Vibrators Improved Their Sex Lives
4 Ways Men Say Couple’s Vibrators Improved Their Sex Lives

August 23, 2021 by Justin Lehmiller

When vibrators are mentioned in pop culture, they’re usually discussed as masturbation aides—something people (particularly women) use to pleasure themselves. You don’t typically see people whipping them out during couple’s...

Dating & Relationships, Sex Tips
Why Establishing Sexual Compatibility Isn’t A One-Time Thing
Why Establishing Sexual Compatibility Isn’t A One-Time Thing

April 28, 2021 by Justin Lehmiller

One reason that many couples have sex early on in a relationship—and well before the prospect of marriage might ever come to mind—is because they want to know whether they’re...

Sex Tips
6 Tips For Dealing With Sexual Difficulties
6 Tips For Dealing With Sexual Difficulties

January 27, 2021 by Justin Lehmiller

As a sex educator, I receive questions almost every day from people who are facing some type of difficulty in their sex life and don’t know what to do about...

Sex Tips
Want More Pleasure in Your Sex Life? There’s an Online Course for That
Want More Pleasure in Your Sex Life? There’s an Online Course for That

June 29, 2020 by Justin Lehmiller

One topic that is conspicuously absent in most sexuality education courses is pleasure [1]. Most of us only ever learn about the potential risks associated with sex and how to...

Sex Tips
How Sex Toys Can Help Men Improve Their Sexual Performance
How Sex Toys Can Help Men Improve Their Sexual Performance

June 26, 2020 by Justin Lehmiller

Sex toys have never been more popular than they are right now. Sales have been steadily increasing for years, but they really surged during lockdown and quarantine.Despite their growing popularity,...

Sex Tips
I’m a Cisgender Woman and My Husband Watches Trans Porn: Does That Mean He’s Not Into Me?
I’m a Cisgender Woman and My Husband Watches Trans Porn: Does That Mean He’s Not Into Me?

April 24, 2020 by Justin Lehmiller

A reader submitted the following question:“I recently discovered that my husband is attracted to transsexuals (MTF - non op). This is the only type of porn that he looks at....

Sex Q&A, Sex Tips
5 Secrets to Increase Your Sexual Satisfaction: Tips From a Sex Therapist
5 Secrets to Increase Your Sexual Satisfaction: Tips From a Sex Therapist

April 13, 2020 by Justin Lehmiller

As a practicing sex therapist, I often see two partners legitimately trying to bridge a satisfaction gap between each other, but they can’t seem to get the moves just right....

Sex Tips
Doing Your Kegel Exercises Just Got A Lot More Fun
Doing Your Kegel Exercises Just Got A Lot More Fun

January 24, 2020 by Justin Lehmiller

Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises is a well-established way of giving your sex life a boost. Indeed, study after study has found that these exercises offer a...

Sex Tips
One Person’s Sexual Problem is Another Person’s Erotic Desire
One Person’s Sexual Problem is Another Person’s Erotic Desire

October 23, 2019 by Justin Lehmiller

What counts as a sexual “problem?” It depends who you ask. For example, consider the phenomenon often referred to as “premature ejaculation” among men. What I’m talking about here are...

Sex Tips

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