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Dr. Justin Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years.

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What I Learned at SPSP’s Sexuality Preconference This Year

March 12, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

Last month, we were in Denver, Colorado for the twelfth annual SPSP Sexuality Preconference. We were fortunate to have Sexual Health Alliance (based in Denver!) as our headline sponsor for this event, and even more fortunate to have sex researchers from all over the world join us. Our day was filled with tons of sex...

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What I Learned at SPSP’s Sexuality Preconference This Year
The “Perfect Partner”: Men’s Experiences With Sex Dolls
The “Perfect Partner”: Men’s Experiences With Sex Dolls

March 5, 2025 by Merissa Prine

Sex dolls have rapidly evolved over the past couple of decades, with technology enabling more lifelike and realistic designs. Although it remains unclear how many people actually own a sex...

Dating & Relationships, Psychology
Why Do Straight Women Go To Gay Bars?
Why Do Straight Women Go To Gay Bars?

February 19, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

There is contentious debate about whether it’s okay for straight people to make gay bars into their regular hangouts. We’re not going to wade into that debate in this post,...

LGBTQIA+
What Are People’s Perceptions of Valentine’s Day?
What Are People’s Perceptions of Valentine’s Day?

February 12, 2025 by Merissa Prine

Historically, Valentine’s Day was an annual feast celebrated on February 14th that was associated with love and romance. While the exact origins of this holiday are controversial and disputed, Valentine’s...

Potpourri
New Sex Book Alert: Sex Work Today
New Sex Book Alert: Sex Work Today

February 5, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

Despite how long sex work has existed (after all, some refer to it as “the oldest profession in the world”), it is still heavily stigmatized. While sex worker stigma isn’t...

Books & Films
How Sex Toys Are Revolutionizing Our Sex Lives
How Sex Toys Are Revolutionizing Our Sex Lives

January 30, 2025 by Merissa Prine

In recent years, the use of sex toys in America has gone from a highly taboo topic to one that is increasingly mainstream. More and more people are discovering how...

Sex Tips
The State of Sex Education in the USA in 2025
The State of Sex Education in the USA in 2025

January 22, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

Every year, we publish an updated state of sexual education in the United States based on data from the Guttmacher Institute. Because each state has its own requirements (or lack...

Sex Ed
Tell Me What You Want

Tell Me What You Want

Discover what the largest survey of sexual fantasies in America tells us about the erotic mind – and how to have a healthier, hotter sex life.

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Take a deep dive into the psychology of sex and relationships. This is the sex ed you never got in school – and won’t get anywhere else.

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