Episode 526: Why More Adults Are Remaining Virgins

More young adults are delaying their sexual debut, with growing numbers reaching their twenties or even thirties without ever having had sex. At the same time, virginity has become increasingly stigmatized, leaving many people feeling ashamed, isolated, or like they’re falling behind. So what’s driving this shift, and what does it tell us about how sex and dating are changing?

My guests are Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, the co-creators of the Somatica® Method and co-founders of the Somatica Institute, where they have trained coaches around the world in an experiential approach to sex, relationships, and personal transformation. They are the authors of three books and serve as the lead sexologists and co-executive producers of the UK Channel 4 award-winning series Virgin Island.

Some of the specific topics we cover include:

• Why are more young adults delaying their sexual debut?
• What’s driving the rise in adult virginity?
• Why did virginity become a social liability?
• What can the TV series Virgin Island teach everyone about building confidence and seeking more meaningful connections?

You can visit celesteanddanielle.com to learn more about their work and take their Core Desires quiz at https://somatica.com/quiz

Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.

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