Episode 310: Tips and Tricks for Better Oral Sex
July 16, 2024 by Justin Lehmiller
Most people say that they find oral sex to be a pleasurable activity, but that doesn’t mean that people always enjoy giving or receiving it. A quick search on social media reveals countless posts from people reporting on bad experiences with oral sex, so let’s talk about how to have better oral. In today’s show, we’re going to explore tips and techniques for amazing oral sex. We’ll also discuss what to do if you find yourself getting bored giving oral sex, how to make sixty-nining fun, and so much more.
My guests today are Chris Maxwell Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose, the co-creators of PleasureMechanics.com. They have devoted their lives to generating online resources to support folks in cultivating more erotic pleasure, joy, and connection. They also run a podcast called Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics.
Some of the specific questions we answer in this episode include:
- Why is the idea that there’s just one perfect recipe for oral sex a myth?
- How do you deal with common roadblocks that interfere with your ability to enjoy performing oral sex, such as boredom or discomfort?
- What are some new positions or approaches that can elevate your oral experiences?
- What should you do if oral sex feels like it has become a duty or obligation instead of something you love to do?
- What are the essential factors that make oral sex great?
To learn more, sign up for the Pleasure Mechanics Oral Sex Mastery course.
Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.
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Dr. Justin Lehmiller
Founder & Owner of Sex and PsychologyDr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He runs the Sex and Psychology blog and podcast and is author of the popular book Tell Me What You Want. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, and a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works.
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