Episode 250: How to Have “The Talk” With Your Kids
December 15, 2023 by Justin Lehmiller
In some ways, teens today seem to be more sexually cautious. They’re waiting longer to have sex and they’re having fewer partners. At the same time, however, they’re also engaging in riskier sexual practices, with condom use declining and rough sex increasing. Sex education is as vital as ever, and it needs to reflect the sexual realities of today’s youth. So in this episode, we’re going to dive into what parents need to know when it comes to talking to their kids about sex.
I am joined once again by Dr. Debby Herbenick, an award-winning, internationally recognized sexuality researcher and AASECT-certified sexuality educator. She is a professor at the Indiana University School of Public Health and the author of five bestselling books about human sexuality. Her latest book is titled, Yes, Your Kid: What Parents Need to Know About Today’s Teens and Sex.
Some of the topics we explore include:
- When is the “right” time to start discussing sex with your kids?
- What are some of the key topics parents should be covering?
- What can parents teach their kids about having healthy relationships?
- When and how should parents talk to their kids about porn?
- How is having “the talk” different if your kid is on the spectrum?
You can visit Debby’s website to learn more about her work.
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Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He runs the Sex and Psychology blog and podcast and is author of the popular book Tell Me What You Want. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, and a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works.Read full bio >