Episode 230: How To Make Consent Sexy
October 6, 2023 by Justin Lehmiller
Sexual consent is not as simple and straightforward as it might sound. It’s actually a complex and highly nuanced concept that means different things to different people and is communicated differently across contexts and relationships. In today’s show, we’re going to talk about how we can do better when it comes to obtaining consent, how to make consent sexy, tips for better sexual communication, and more.
I am joined once again by Dr. Eric FitzMedrud, a therapist specializing in relationship and sexual issues in the San Francisco Bay Area. His specialty is helping men improve their sex lives, and his latest book is titled The Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex.
Some of the topics we explore include:
- How is consent usually depicted in the popular media, and how does this line up with reality?
- How can you go about obtaining consent without taking the excitement and spontaneity out of sex?
- How has the language around sexual consent evolved in recent years?
- Is it realistic to think that everyone will practice enthusiastic consent?
- What is the three-step consent process?
- What else should we be talking about when it comes to understanding and improving sexual communication?
To learn more, you can check out Eric’s website.
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Dr. Justin Lehmiller
Founder & Owner of Sex and PsychologyDr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He runs the Sex and Psychology blog and podcast and is author of the popular book Tell Me What You Want. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, and a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works.
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