Episode 145: Solving Sexual Problems Without Sex Therapy
November 15, 2022 by Justin Lehmiller
Most people will encounter a sexual problem at some point in their lives, but most will suffer in silence. Shame and embarrassment lead a lot of folks to avoid talking about sex problems and seeking help for them. Unfortunately, by doing nothing, these problems often end up growing into much bigger issues. But it doesn’t have to be this way! Many sex problems can be solved on our own, without the need for therapy. So let’s talk about things you can do to solve common sexual problems and get your sex life back on track.
I am joined once again by sex therapist Dr. Laurie Mintz, a Professor at the University of Florida and author of the books Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It as well as A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex. Some of the topics we discuss include:
- What it means to give yourself permission.
- How a little bit of sex education can go a long way toward resolving sexual difficulties.
- Examples of “homework” exercises you can do to work on problem areas.
- When self-help isn’t enough and you should head straight to a therapist or healthcare provider.
- Reasons why some people have difficulty orgasming.
- Tips for dealing with orgasmic difficulties.
- General tips for preventing sexual difficulties and maintaining a healthy sex life.
Learn more about Laurie at drlauriemintz.com
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Dr. Justin Lehmiller
Founder & Owner of Sex and PsychologyDr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He runs the Sex and Psychology blog and podcast and is author of the popular book Tell Me What You Want. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, and a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works.
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