Episode 102: The Truth About Fake Orgasms

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Episode 102: The Truth About Fake Orgasms

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In the classic film When Harry Met Sally, Meg Ryan famously said, “Most women at one time or another have faked it.” And she was right. But it turns out that women aren’t the only ones who do this. Fake orgasms are surprisingly common across genders. So why do so many people feign the peak of pleasure? And is pretending to climax a good thing or a bad thing? That’s why we’re going to be talking about today.

I am joined by Ashley Weller, a professor at Chapman University in Southern California who teaches human sexuality courses. Ashley has more than 15 years of experience in sex education and runs a podcast called What’s your Position? that tackles issues surrounding sexuality, relationships, life, and love from a comedic yet educational point of view. Some of the topics we explore in this show include:

• How many people have ever faked an orgasm before?
• Why do people fake orgasms, and do men’s and women’s reasons for doing it differ?
• What do people actually do when they pretend to climax?
• Is it always a bad idea to fake orgasms?
• What should you do if you’re been faking it but don’t want to do that anymore?
• What should you do if you suspect your partner of faking orgasms?

To learn more about Ashley, check out her podcast What’s your Position? and follow her on Instagram @whatsyourpositionpodcast

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