7 Reasons To Give Thanks For Sex Today

November 23, 2017 by Justin Lehmiller


For all of my readers celebrating Thanksgiving today, don’t forget to give thanks for sex! Why? Research has found that sex is good for us in numerous ways, both physically and psychologically. In this post, I’ve pulled together a list of seven reasons to be thankful for sex today (and every other day of the year).

1. Sex is a multi-purpose activity–one that allows us to meet a wide range of needs. Believe it or not, scientists have identified at least 237 distinct reasons/motivations for having sex! Not only is sex a fun and pleasurable way to pass the time, but it’s also a potential way to reproduce, to demonstrate love and affection, and to find relief (studies have found that, among couples, having sex on one day is linked to feeling less stress the following day). As you can clearly see, sex has the potential to do a lot for us.

2. Frequent sexual activity is linked to better health, with several studies reporting that the more frequently people experience orgasm, the better their physical health tends to be. Not only that, but other research has found those who orgasm the most tend to live the longest! Of course, this research doesn’t let us say definitively whether sex improves health (indeed, there’s undoubtedly some truth to the idea that people who are healthier are probably more likely to have sex). That said, the results do suggest that sex is more likely to help rather than harm your health.

3. One direct health benefit of sex is that it’s a form of exercise. For example, one study found that, on average, young men burned 101 calories while young women burned 69 calories during the act. Of course, at this rate, it would take a LOT of sex to burn off multiple servings of turkey, mashed potatoes, and pie. Translation: sex clearly isn’t the equivalent of going to the gym (at least it isn’t for the vast majority of people), but it does count for something.

4. Sex isn’t just good for our bodies–it’s also good for our brains. For example, rat studies have found that frequent sexual activity is associated with more neuron growth. Consistent with this finding, studies focused on older adults have found that more frequent sexual activity is linked to maintaining better cognitive functioning with advanced age.

5. Another potential brain benefit of sex is that it seems to improve our mental health and well-being. Research has found that on days we have sex, we experience an increase in positive moods and a decrease in negative moods the following day. We also feel more meaning in life as well. These findings may help to explain, in part, why people are happier and more productive in the workplace to the extent that they had sex the night before.

6. Sex is something you can enjoy for pretty much your entire life. Indeed, many adults age 70+ still have active sex lives. Of course, we tend to slow down a little and we’re more likely to experience certain sexual difficulties as we age. Fortunately, however, there is no definitive endpoint when it comes to sex and the benefits it can bring us.

7. Good news for singles: research suggests that even solo sexual activities have potential health benefits. In other words, you don’t necessarily need to have a partner to experience many of these effects. Check out this video for a brief look at the research on self-love and health.

Have a very happy and sexy Thanksgiving!

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Dr. Justin Lehmiller
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Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He runs the Sex and Psychology blog and podcast and is author of the popular book Tell Me What You Want. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, and a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works.

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