A Top Ten List of Men’s Sexual Fantasies: Football, Threesomes, Star Wars and More

I recently posted an article about how men’s and women’s sexual fantasies differ. As I mentioned in that piece, men’s fantasies tend to be sexually explicit, frequently include multiple partners, and often express themes of dominance and submission. To demonstrate some evidence of this and explore men’s fantasy content in a little more detail, I have prepared a Top Ten List of sexual fantasies than guys have anonymously submitted to me over the years. As you’ll see when reading this list, threesomes are (not surprisingly) perhaps the most commonly desired scenario. However, you’ll also notice that men’s fantasies frequently include trying new things, breaking social taboos, and combining sex with their true loves: football, food, and Star Wars. Enjoy!

10. My sexual fantasy is to have a hot girl just look at me and say, “Let’s go back to my place right now!”

9. Have sex with a mother and daughter at the same time.

8. Start off with an exotic dinner and music, then head to the bedroom for a long prelude of foreplay. This could include eating desserts off of the other person, including whipped cream, Jell-o, and so on—then moving on to intercourse in all different kinds of positions.

7. Me + my girlfriend + her best female friend = threesome

6. An evening of complete catering to my ever want and desire. My favorite meal prepared for me, an entire afternoon of watching football with my significant other waiting on me hand and foot, followed by sexual adventures.

5. I’ve always wanted to sleep with a teacher who is around 35-45 years old. It has always been a fantasy of mine to sleep with an attractive older woman. When they are teachers, it makes it better for some reason, especially if they “seduce” me in the classroom.

4. Sex in the shower, but she wears a Chewbacca costume and I am Darth Vader. *Editors Note: I’ve received a ton of Han Solo/Princess Leia fantasies, but this one was clearly a much more interesting twist on the typical Star Wars fantasy.*

3. My fantasy is having my partner completely take control. I want someone who will take what they want when they want it. I am in such control in all other aspects of my life—I just want to be taken advantage of.

2. Sitting in a tree with some Cheetos and watching people have sex in their master bedroom. Whatever kind of sex is fine. I guess for legal reasons they need to know I am watching, but they should act like I am not there.

1. A threesome with two girls and me. We are in a private box at the Broncos game. Right from the start they would be the dominant ones, while I wait for commands. They would be climbin’ all over me like lions. Then after I watch them do each other, I get my turn…Go Broncos!

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